21+ Discord Servers

Official Discord of r/howtonotgiveafuck… where you can chill out without worrying about anything, lots of shenanigans, weirdos and of course plenty of NSFW content - 21+ ADULTS ONLY

Sin & Tonic is a premier BDSM and alternative lifestyle community designed for adults who value deep connections, exploration, and a sophisticated atmosphere. We blend a high-class lounge vibe with a passionate, edge-playing community to create the perfect digital sanctuary. 🖤 What We Offer • Vetted & Secure Community: We prioritize safety with a robust, mandatory verification process to ensure a secure environment for all members. • Diverse Dynamics: Dedicated spaces for Dominants, submissives, switches, sadists, masochists, and curious newcomers alike. • Educational Resources: Regular discussions, workshops, and shared resources covering safety, consent, and advanced BDSM techniques. • Engaging Events: Join us for themed party nights, interactive games, truth-or-dare, and lively voice chat lounges. • Curated Channels: Explore specific channels for kink education, riggers, lifestyle advice, outfit sharing, and late-night confessions. 🥂 Grab a Drink, Find Your Place Whether you are looking to learn, share your experiences, or find like-minded individuals who share your kinks, you will find your perfect mix here. Come for the aesthetic, stay for the family. • Strictly 21+ Only. ID verification required for full access.

🌲 Welcome to Port Aldridge, Colorado 🌲 Tucked away in the heart of the Rocky Mountains, Port Aldridge, Colorado is the kind of town found pictured on postcards as the perfect place to slow down and soak up life. Surrounded by towering trees, pristine hiking trails, and other exciting outdoor adventures, the resort town backs right up to a high mountain peak that boasts some of the best ski trails and breathtaking views. With the more recent addition of the resort, the town has become a premier destination for tourists who can enjoy the quaint but modern shops littered through town, great food, exciting nightlife, and some of the best people around. Whether you are hunting for hidden boutique treasures or simply breathing in the sweeping mountain views, this enchanting mountain haven captures your heart the moment you arrive. --About Us:-- Port Aldridge is a 21+ immersive and rapidly growing Slice of Life server set in a fictional town in Colorado. ✦ What We Offer ✦ 🤝 - Friendly, attentive staff and a 21+ welcoming community 📚 - Engaging, realistic plots 🏠 - Diverse locations, businesses, and neighborhoods 🎉 - Organized events 📱 - Fun IC town group chat ✍ - No post length requirement 📃 - Easy character apps and lore 🌈 - LGBTQ+ friendly ✨ - So much more! 🗻🌲🗻🌲🗻🌲🗻🌲 What are you waiting for, tourist seasion is always open!

Brand new server, please feel free to come be a founding member and shape the culture here, adjustments in channels and roles can be made as requested. The goal is have to be a hub to find people! Members must be age 21+, keep things classy. A place to make connections, optional chats and intros separated by age. No sponsorships or advertising pings.

🌲 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐄𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐰𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐀𝐫𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐯𝐞 A 21+ space for readers, fantasy fanatics & forest friends 🖤 💎 𝐋𝐕𝐋 𝟑 𝐁𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐒𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞𝐫 💎 ✨𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝: • general chat with a welcoming atmosphere & thoughtful discussions • a cute & cozy server aesthetic • reading & bookish channels for current reads, TBR, buddy reads, book of the month, book hauls, etc • a gaming section & shelf for games • various fantasy roles & perks as you level up + perks for server boosters • readathons & challenges • movie & game nights Venture into the woods & join us, it’s quite cozy here 🕯️ 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝟐𝟏+ 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲! 𝐏𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐣𝐨𝐢𝐧 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝟐𝟏 🖤

Welcome to our bilingual server! Here we like to fan over topics like anime, superheroes, kpop and dramas, gaming like Nintendo and other fun games. We also play Fortnite and Roblox games like dress to impress.

# 🩸 BLACKTHORN ### *One city. Three factions. Endless secrets.* 🌙 **21+ Gothic Supernatural Roleplay** A city of secrets, blood, and ancient magic. Three factions fight for control while forbidden relationships threaten an old war. 🔮 **WITCHES** — Magic always takes something. 🩸 **VAMPIRES** — Blood is power. Hunger is the price. ⚔️ **HUNTERS** — Know your enemy. Never become them. 🖤 Dark Romance 🩸 Dead Dove Themes ⚔️ Faction Conflict 💕 Character-Driven RP ### ⚠️ DEAD DOVE BOUNDARIES Themes may include coercion, captivity, violence, torture, forced relationships, obsession, and other disturbing fictional scenarios. **All extreme themes require prior OOC consent and clear boundaries. IC ≠ OOC. Real-life consent always applies.** Choose your faction. Forge alliances. Make enemies. Fall for someone you shouldn’t. > *The war is beginning again.* **Join Blackthorn:**

Tired of being one of the oldest members in your group? Well we're a 21+ only server that could be a great fit for you! Here you'll find: ♡ TONS of self assign roles (Personality, colors, characteristics + other) ♡ 250 total emojis (We are level 3 boosted!) ♡ A friendly and welcoming community with MANY DM friendly users. ♡ Lots of games and activities such as one word story, dank memer and Poketwo ♡ An introduction channel to let people know who you are! ♡ A searching for DMs channel to help you make friends easier! ♡ A selfie channel (Requires a few minutes of chatting to access) ♡ Plenty plenty plenty more!! So come join us! We're sure you'll fit just right in!! Note: We also do not tolerate toxic drama here!

💜 THE LOST & FOUND 💜 A home for misfits, outcasts & broken toys. You didn't end up here by accident. This is a place for the ones who never quite fit in. No masks. No judgment. Just real people and a community that gets it. WHAT'S INSIDE: 🎮 Gaming & Squad Up 🎧 DJ Booth & Music 🎬 Movie Nights 📚 Book Club & Author Space 🎨 Art & Creative Showcase 🔧 Mental Health Support 🎁 Giveaways & Events 🃏 Games & Activities 🛍️ Vendor Stall BE YOU. BE REAL. STAY LOST. STAY FOUND. Misfits welcome. Broken toys encouraged.

𓃦 ⡇ What is Fox Ridge? Fox Ridge is a supernatural blend of themes that bring together certain dynamics of horror, gore, and scenes in which one wouldn't *normally* see. While this is the case, we do want everyone to feel *absolutely* comfortable here, and that means - roleplay to your own vibe. It is a lively slice-of-life, and any event held will be at the vote of the members. - Roleplay - 21+ Only - Self-Plot - Semi-lit to lit.

✨ Welcome to the Haus of Glitter & Gloom 🖤 A cozy corner of the internet where sparkle meets shadow and every kind of creative soul has a place. Whether you’re glamorous, gothic, chaotic, artistic, or still figuring out your aesthetic, you’re invited to pull up a throne and make yourself at home. Inside the Haus, you’ll find: ✨ Friendly conversations and delightfully chaotic banter 🖤 Alternative fashion, art, music, and creative inspiration 🌙 Memes, late-night chats, and laid-back hangouts 🎭 Space to express yourself without judgment 💎 An inclusive, LGBTQ-friendly community 🥀 New friends who appreciate both the glitter and the gloom 🎵 A custom built music player unlike anything most other servers have. 🧭 A custom onboarding experience - a concierge service to assist you Come for the aesthetic. Stay for the wonderfully strange people you meet along the way. Step inside the Haus—your throne is waiting. ✨🖤 Our website has links to various resources if you are in need: https://hausofglitterandgloom.org/#top

an adult-only cozy place you can go to to decompress from daily life <3

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ𓆩⟡𓆪 ╞═⟪ Α T H E N A E U M ⟫═╡ 〖`21+` ▹ `Adv. Lit` - `Novella` ▹ `1x1 & Small Group Roleplays` ▹ `OC Only` ▹ `ID & Literacy Check`〗 A quiet corner of Discord for the writers with lives and a taste for story https://discord.gg/th9EfpKUsy ║ 📚 📚 📚 ║ 📚 📚 📚 ║ 📚 📚 📚 ║ ════════════════════════════════════════ *Get lost in the stacks of Athenaeum and discover quality, 21+ writers* We aren't just another advertising hub, we're here for those looking for quality *and* quantity From 1x1 partner searches to small group roleplays (under 30 members), we're sure you can find or advertise for what you're looking for ║ 📚 📚 📚 ║ 📚 📚 📚 ║ 📚 📚 📚 ║ ════════════════════════════════════════ 📚 `ID & Literacy Verification` - Be assured everyone is 21+ and held to the same consistency in quality 📚 `Chill Server` - Over 250 members, but a chill place to hangout and peruse ads 📚 `Tiered Content Access` - Roled spaces for SFW - NSFW - NSFL topics 📚 `Monthly Starter Challenge` - Challenge prompts to get the creative gears moving 📚 `Artist Alley` - Space to show off and advertise your art ════════════════════════════════════════ `LGBTQIA+ Friendly` ▹ `Friendly & Helpful Staff` ▹ `Lurker Haven` ▹ `Customizable Server` ▹ `Writing & Art Resources` ▹ `1x1 & Small Group` ▹ `Book Club` ▹ `Chill Community` ▹ `Daily QOTD` ## Find your next roleplay partner or group https://discord.gg/th9EfpKUsy

Welcome to Ný Von Isle! 🏝️ This 21+ only Discord server offers a modern/urban fantasy experience with a quaint old-world flavor. Here, you have the freedom to plot and make connections with other members, and the server, characters, and setting are all dynamic. Ný Von Isle is a land of mysticism amidst the mundane, where all the stories are true, including yours. The setting is modern fantasy with a basis in folklore, and it values a sense of community and creativity both in and out of character. With minimal limitations on character building, this server is perfect for those who love fantasy, want to form connections within a community, and enjoy dynamic plots and character development driven by interactions with a variety of personalities and powers. Please note that this server is strictly 21+ only, as it may contain dark themes and content inappropriate for minors. However, it is not sexually-focused in any way. Join us on Ný Von Isle and let the magic begin! ✨ For more information, visit our server site at: https://nyvon.weebly.com/

╔══════════════╗ Welcome Creature, To Nocturne. Dusk drapes over the bustling city of New York, soft gold bleeding into shadow before it gives way completely to neon, bringing the city to life once again. Humans flood the sidewalks and spill into dim-lit rooms, their bodies pressed close, as they dance and laugh between drinks. Moving like they always do, careless, and blissfully unaware of what lurks among them. Blind to the crimson eyes, and sharp fangs and claws that smile so pleasantly in their faces. Because the night doesn't belong to the mortals of New York. It belongs to creatures much older than the city itself. It is their hunting ground, and you are their prey. This city doesn’t give warnings. It doesn’t offer second chances. But it does offer opportunities Because not all prey is meant to be devoured. Some are given a chance to survive. To become something more than another blank face in the crowded streets. So step into the nocturnal world of New York. Chase the thrill. Pick your side… or carve out your own. Just understand this. Once the night knows you… It doesn’t forget. What we offer: - Modern New York City Setting (2022) - Werewolves, Ghouls, Sirens, Fae, Vampires, Halfbloods (hybrids), Supernatural Hunters, Demons and Witches - This server is 21+ and contains NSFW themes. ERP is allowed but is not the center of the server and plot. - Semi-literate+ server - LGBTQ+ friendly - Engaging, multi-layered plot (that values everyone ideas) - Active admin team and members ╚══════════════╝

Looking for a chill 21+ hangout server? Want a place that feels more like a group of friends than a giant crowd yelling into the void? Join the ⭒˚⋆𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝐼𝓃𝓈𝒶𝓃𝑒 𝒜𝓈𝓎𝓁𝓊𝓂⭒˚⋆ A 21+ hangout focused on chatting, joking around, casual gaming, and hopping into voice without pressure. It’s laid-back and welcoming, where people are just people. If you like chill conversations, dumb jokes, and a space where you don’t feel lost in the crowd, this might be your thing!

༶•┈┈┈тнє ѕι¢києѕѕѕ(21+) ┈┈┈•༶ ╳▬▬▬▬　（　💜　）　▬▬▬▬╳ υитιℓ συя ѕι¢києѕѕ ѕρяєα∂ѕ ωσяℓ∂-ωι∂є. ╳▬▬▬▬　（　💜　）　▬▬▬▬╳ --- The ''SICK'' discord tag ╚ᴡʜᴏ ᴀʀᴇ ᴡᴇ?╝ 😮 Level 3 server! 😊 Friendly individuals! 🎮 Gaming friends! 🎮 Gamer/Streamer friendly - group game nights! 🎥 Movies and music - movie nights! 🎨 Artist and creator support - art sharing 🎤 Active voice-chats, discord bot games and activities. 😂 Endless meme's - come share yours! ❌ 21+ Memes, picture's, gifs, art 💻 Friendly Fun Staff.

This isn’t a childhood circus this is the Freakshow. 21+ only. Where the wicked, daring, and decadently twisted roam. Enter if you hunger for darkness. Stay if fear has no hold on you.

Welcome to Dank After Dark 18+ Where the smoke is smooth, the vibes are real, and the people are solid. You’re almost in — just one quick step before you unlock the rest of the server ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ How to Get Verified Head to Dank After Dark 18+⁠support Press Create Ticket Follow the steps inside your private ticket Upload your ID (You may blur everything except your face + date of birth) That’s it. A staff member will take it from there. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ What You Unlock After Verification Dank After Dark 18+⁠stone-lair — main hangout Dank After Dark 18+⁠weed-pics • ⁠TheStoneyBalonney 18+⁠dab-pics • ⁠TheStoneyBalonney 18+⁠-rig-pics ⁠ Dank After Dark 18+⁠idle-grow-op-v5 — our custom grow game Smoked Baloney Sesh & The Tipsy Glass voice lounges Clips, memes, pets, car content & more Basically… the fun part of the server. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ The Vibe Here No NSFW No e-dating No drama Just good people, real convos, and chill energy. Talk as much or as little as you want — lurking is completely fine. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ While You Wait (Optional) Drop one if you feel like it: • Favorite strain • Favorite snack • Or a song you’ve had on repeat If something isn’t working, head back to ⁠ Dank After Dark 18+⁠support and we’ll take care of it. Welcome — we’ll see you inside.

👑 ┊ luxury 21+ community with a dark, elegant atmosphere 🥃 ┊ SFW, lewd & NSFW spaces depending on your mood 🔥 ┊ after-dark channels for those feeling a little less innocent 🖤 ┊ friendly, active community without the usual Discord chaos 🔞 ┊ strictly 21+ with a dedicated verification system 📸 ┊ selfies, profiles, pets, memes, music & gaming 🎮 ┊ gaming spaces to find people to play and hang out with 💋 ┊ flirty spaces with consent and boundaries firmly respected 🎭 ┊ reaction roles, colour roles 🎉 ┊ events, games and community activities 🛡️ ┊ active staff team keeping LUX comfortable and secure 🌈 ┊ LGBTQ+ friendly, open-minded and welcoming 🥂 ┊ late-night conversations, new friendships & genuine connections

WELCOME TO THE OASIS 21+ Step into a chaotic, welcoming escape where the conversation never dies and the community actually feels alive. What you’ll find inside: • Chaotic energy with a fun, social atmosphere • Inclusive community where everyone has a place • Active chats and responsive, engaged staff • Regular contests and interactive events • Giveaways and rewards worth sticking around for • SFW-focused environment (21+ space) • Exclusive booster perks • Server currency system with fun incentives • Open to partnerships and collaborations Whether you’re here to make friends, join events, or just hang out after a long day, The Oasis is built to keep you coming back. Join us and be part of the chaos.

In a world where 75% of humanity has powers, heroes and villains have become a part of everyday life. Government agencies regulate abilities, criminal organizations operate in the shadows, and every person must decide what they’ll do with the power they’ve been given. Loosely based of MHA, Marvel, DC, and the Boys. This is a world that has been made to focus on what it would be like to work for in a hero agency, walking down the street and see heroes fighting villains, or explore the under belly of the world. Generation Hero is a brand-new superhero roleplay community looking for heroes, villains, vigilantes, and civilians to help shape the next generation.

this server is strictly 21+ • mdni a special place for the people who get a little too attached or have questionable attachment styles talk, lurk, vent, spiral, whatever we have movie & vc channels, bots, emojis, & an absolute unhinged chat sometimes stay awhile we’re really chill, just semitox while our description is very limerance & obsession coded we are also a community to find new friends & connections 🖤 our community is NOT nsfw however we have nsfw context & emojis

✩⁺₊✩☽⋆ ᗯEᒪᑕOᗰE TO TᕼE GᗩᖇᗪEᑎ ⋆☾✩⁺₊✩ ╰┈➤ A floral little bed for soft spoken ladies, wild card girlies, & Sassy lassies 🌼Iᑎ TᕼE ᖴᒪOᗯEᖇ ᗷEᗪ:🌼 ╔⏤⏤⏤⏤╝❀╚⏤⏤⏤⏤╗ •🌺 21+ ✦ 𝗪𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻-𝗢𝗻𝗹𝘆 ✦ 𝗜𝗗-𝗩𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗲𝗱💅 •🌹 𝑪𝒉𝒂𝒐𝒔 ✦ 𝑪𝒐𝒕𝒕𝒂𝒈𝒆-𝒄𝒐𝒓𝒆 ✦ 𝑪𝒓𝒊𝒎𝒆𝒔 🥔 •🪻 𝑺𝑭𝑾 ✦ 𝑺𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒚 ✦ 𝑺𝒖𝒄𝒄𝒖𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒕☢️ •🌸 𝑮𝒂𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒈 ✦ 𝑮𝒐𝒐𝒃𝒆𝒓𝒔 ✦ 𝑮𝒓𝒆𝒎𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒔🌸 •🏳️‍🌈 𝑷𝒍𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒔 ✦ 𝑷𝒍𝒂𝒏𝒆𝒕𝒔 ✦ 𝑷𝒆𝒓𝒄𝒆𝒑𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆🏳️‍🌈 •🍃 𝑮𝒓𝒂𝒔𝒔 ✦ 𝑺𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒐𝒎𝒔 ✦ 𝑩𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒈𝒆𝒔🍄 •🌷 𝑩𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒔 ✦ 𝑩𝒆𝒂𝒖𝒕𝒚 ✦ 𝑩𝒓𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒔 🎶 •🏵️𝑾𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒉𝒚 ✦ 𝑾𝒊𝒍𝒅 ✦ 𝑾𝒐𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒔 •🌸𝑪𝒉𝒂𝒕 ✦ 𝑮𝒂𝒎𝒆 ✦ 𝑬𝒙𝒑𝒍𝒐𝒓𝒆 ╚⏤⏤⏤⏤╗❀╔⏤⏤⏤⏤╝ 🌱 Find a shady spot in our sunlit grove, the caps are empty and the tree seeks its faeries.🪴 The Garden Awaits you~🌱 ⚠️ᴮᴱᶠᴼᴿᴱ ʸᴼᵁ ᴶᴼᴵᴺ⚠️ ᵂᵉ ᵃˡˡᵒʷ ˡᶦᵐᶦᵗᵉᵈ ᵈᶦˢᶜᵘˢˢᶦᵒⁿˢ ᵒᶠ ˢᵉᵐᶦ ᶦⁿᵃᵖᵖʳᵒᵖʳᶦᵃᵗᵉ ᵗᵒᵖᶦᶜˢ, ᴮᵁᵀ: ᵀʰᵉʳᵉ ʷᶦˡˡ ⁿᵉᵛᵉʳ ᵇᵉ ⁿᵘᵈᶦᵗʸ ᵃⁿᵈ ᵒʳ ˢᵉˣᵘᵃˡ ᵈᶦˢᶜᵘˢˢᶦᵒⁿˢ ʰᵉʳᵉ.

[21+ NSFW] Drop the vanilla mask. The Black Veil Sanctuary is officially opening its doors to all genders. Leave your polite daytime composure at the threshold and step into a mature sanctuary built for the wicked, the possessive, and the unapologetically feral. Whether you are a Dominant who commands with quiet precision, a submissive who thrives in deep surrender, or a dark romance addict craving unhinged devotion, your place in the shadows is waiting. No shame, no watered-down desires—just raw D/s psychology, real talk, and unfiltered kink.

Temptation’s Accord is a **21+ consensual community** founded on negotiated power, intentional financial exchange, and mutual responsibility. All dynamics within this space are entered willingly. Consent is explicit. Limits are discussed. Financial domination here involves real exchange, undertaken with transparency, budgets, and respect for real-world stability. Money is never used to coerce, trap, or pressure participation. We are femdom-forward, while welcoming ethical male Dominants who understand that authority carries responsibility. Dominants are expected to lead with clarity and care. Submissives are expected to retain agency, state limits, and participate from a place of informed choice. This server is guided by a Council of moderators who act as stewards of culture, safety, and accountability. Intervention is protective, not performative—ensuring that desire does not override ethics. Temptation is invited here, not demanded. Power is practiced by agreement. Exchange is meaningful because it is chosen. **21+ only. Consent required. Ethics enforced.**

Just a cloud friendly socially active non judge mental group of open minded people.