Lgbtq+ Discord Servers

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🎸⭐Rockstar Discord Server⭐🎸 Our Rockstar Discord Server is a fun-filled zone where lively discussions peppered with humorous banter and quirky commentary are commonplace! We engage in head-scratching debates, exchange unconventional thoughts, and share a hearty laugh over conversation starters that others might consider odd. Venture into our realm of amusing chaos! You never know what you might stumble upon in the midst of these engaging discussions. Perfect for those with a zany sense of humor and an appreciation for light controversy. We assure you, fun is guaranteed! 🔮🎭🏵️🥳

The Sovereign Empire is your new 18+ home to celebrate Kink~! Come explore our hottest Doms and open the doors to our Kinkdom! 🔱 LGBTQ+ FRIENDLY, GENDER INCLUSIVE 🔱 Dom > Switch > Sub 🔱 2D,VTUBERS DOM/DOMMES ETC WELCOME!!! 🔱 Content Seller Friendly! 🔱 Booster Perks and Access! Our server focuses and PRIDES itself on creating a safe environment and friendly community. A server is NOTHING without its people! Newbies absolutely encouraged! What are you waiting for? Come jump into the fun ❤️

🔥 Join the vibrant 🌟 NimonaCord 🌟 community, your premier destination for all things Nimona on Discord! We're the *official* Reddit-sponsored hub for fans who rallied together to feature Nimona on r/place 2023. 🎨🤩 🚀 Since our inception, we've evolved into a thriving hangout where enthusiasts like you can chat, discuss, and dive deep into the world of Nimona. Whether you're new to the series or a seasoned fan, our diverse range of channels offers something for everyone. 🎉 📢 We're a growing server and we welcome your creative ideas and suggestions to make NimonaCord even better! 💡 ✨ Don't miss out on the fun - come be a part of our welcoming community! We're excited to meet you in the server. See you online! 🙌 #NimonaCord #NimonaFans #DiscordCommunity 👉 Click to join the adventure now! [Insert Discord Invite Link] 🌐

A place where we appreciate the beauty of both men and women. A place where you can share porn, nudes and find someone to get off with. There's numerous channels for various types of porn. A friendly enviroment where people can come together and have a good time, LGBTQ friendly! Come say hi, we'd love to get to know you!

Join the adult-exclusive Splatoon server, SplatFinity 18+! 🎮🌟 Only for gamers 18 and over, we offer matchmaking channels, a mature and supportive community, Splatfest Roles and matchups, helpful staff, and some cool emotes! 😎👍 We're a chill and LGBTQ-friendly server where everyone who's 18+ is welcome. Come join us and let's play some games together! 🦑🐙🩷🥰

Welcome to the CAPTAIN LASERHAWK NETWORK (CLHN) Discord server! 🚀 Please note that PROSHIPPERS, COMSHIPPERS, AND DARKSHIPPERS ARE NOT PERMITTED ON THIS SERVER. IF YOU ARE ONE OF THESE, EXPECT AN IMMEDIATE BAN AS SOON AS WE FIND OUT. This is a small 13+ Captain Laserhawk server, but all fandoms are welcome! Whether you're here to make new friends or share your love for Captain Laserhawk, this is the place for you. We have art channels, writing channels, discussion channels, and more. We also plan to host game nights, show nights, VC nights, etc. This is a safe space for autistic and neurodivergent people, individuals under the LGBTQIA+ umbrella, people of any gender identity, those who use any pronouns, systems, people of all races, cultures and religions, and everyone regardless of whether you are able-bodied or not. Join us and be a part of our growing community! 🌟

🌈👩‍🦰 Welcome to Transfems Discord Server! 🌟 We are an inclusive and vibrant online community exclusively for transfeminine individuals.✨🌸 Interact and connect with like-minded individuals who share similar experiences and interests! Our goal is to foster a safe and supportive environment, allowing you to express yourself freely. Join us as we embark on a journey of growth together in this warm and accepting space. 🌍💞 #Transfems #Transgender #Community

╔═══.·:·.☽✧ ✦ ✧☾.·:·.═══╗ 𝐖𝐞𝐥𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐢𝐭 𝐇𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 ╚═══.·:·.☽✧ ✦ ✧☾.·:·.═══╝ moonlit hideaway is an 18+ BDSM, kink, and fetish community for LGBTQ+ folks and women! this is a server focused on education, intersectionality, and safety in BDSM and kink. we advocate for easily understandable information on safe BDSM practices and BDSM culture! 𓇢𓆸𓋼𓍊𓋼𓍊 𓆏 𓍊𓋼𓍊𓋼𓇢𓆸 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗷𝗼𝗶𝗻𝘀 𝗠𝗨𝗦𝗧 𝗴𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗜𝗗 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝘀 𝟭𝟴+. 𝘄𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗽𝗵𝗼𝘁𝗼𝘀 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗶𝗿𝗺𝗲𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗮𝗴𝗲 𓇢𓆸𓋼𓍊𓋼𓍊 𓆏 𓍊𓋼𓍊𓋼𓇢𓆸 ⊹ ࣪ ˖ server features ˖ ࣪⊹ ☆ queer and neurodiverse staff team ☆ chats dedicated to community building and having fun ☆ robust list of self-assignable kink, limit, and self roles (with definitions for each kink!) ☆ live BDSM classroom events, infographics, and helpful tips/resources ☆ organized forums for resources, Q&A, etc. ☆ exclusive channels to unlock through activity ☆ headspace chats for littles and brats ☆ monthly serverwide events (movie nights, CAH, Jackbox, etc.) ☆ many different fun bots to play with! …and so much more! come join and see what moonlit hideaway is all about ˙ᵕ˙

💬🛠⚓Join the lively 'Social Pirate Technocracy' Discord Server! This server offers a relaxed environment perfect for social democracy discussions, technocratic ideas sharing, and pirate party planning. Immerse yourself in virtual technocrat adventures and pirate-themed festivities 🏴‍☠️. Perfect for casual hangouts and enriching conversations! Make friends interested in Technocracy, Pirate Parties, and Social Democracy. Connect, share, and grow together in the 'Social Pirate Technocracy' community. 🎉💻🗳 #DiscordServer #SocialPirateTechnocracy #Technocracy #PirateParty #SocialDemocracy<historical>

🖤💀🔪🎮🎥 Welcome to Coven Beverly Kills! This server is a horror/gaming community where we come together to chat, have fun, and meet new friends. We are LGBTQ-friendly, level 3 boosted, SFW, and open to everyone 13 and older. Our love for horror knows no bounds and we're always looking for new games, movies, and shows to dive into! ♡ What we offer! ♡ ❥・Fun simulator nights ｡･:*˚:✧｡ ❥・Lots of emoji's/stickers ｡･:*˚:✧｡ ❥・Active and social ｡･:*˚:✧｡ ❥・Bots and games ｡･:*˚:✧｡ ❥・Pingfinder channel ｡･:*˚:✧｡ ❥・Confession Channel ｡･:*˚:✧｡ We are constantly growing and evolving, so we have a suggestions channel where we welcome your feedback and ideas! 🖤💀🔪🎮🎥

💌 Welcome to "The Deck" - Your Ultimate Gaming Hangout! 🎮🤝 🌟 Dive into "The Deck," the internet's friendliest gaming server where endless adventures and friendships await! Whether you're a casual player or a gaming guru, our vibrant community is the perfect place to unite with fellow game enthusiasts! 🚀 Get ready to explore a universe of games! Connect with others, share your epic moments, and discover your next digital quest. Plus, with an array of playful bots at your fingertips, gaming fun never stops! 🤖 Engage with our interactive bots to enhance your gaming experience. Take part in our thrilling events and indulge in the camaraderie that makes "The Deck" the go-to server for gamers around the world! 🥳 Witness our jam-packed event calendar, featuring tournaments, game nights, and social gatherings that add an extra dimension to your online adventure. 🔗 Join "The Deck" now and transform the way you play and socialize! Don't miss out on the chance to level up your game and create lasting friendships in the ultimate gaming community. 🌐💕 🔍 Looking for a place to enjoy a plethora of games and connect with like-minded folks? Search no more! "The Deck" is here to deliver non-stop gaming excitement and social bliss. 📢 Step aboard "The Deck" and let the fun begin! Click that invite and catapult into a realm where games and camaraderie create the perfect blend for an unforgettable virtual experience! 🎉👾

Welcome to ☆ 🧺 ⊹♡ Ampelos' Stead! ✦, a cozy little cottage nestled in the countryside owned by the lovely people of the POC and LGBTQ communities. This server is a safe and welcoming space for everyone, with a focus on supporting each other and sharing positive vibes. Join us for some fun chats, friendly support, and a sprinkle of wholesome goodness. Let's grow together like the beautiful vineyards of Ampelos' Stead. 🌾🪴❀

🌟🎮🌌 Welcome to Starlight Arcade 🌌🎮🌟 Step into a new galaxy of gaming with the Starlight Arcade Discord Server! Our community is made up of game enthusiasts, creators, and lovers of all things gaming. Whether you're looking for a place to hang out, share your artwork, or join in on game nights, we've got you covered. What we offer: - Friendly and supportive staff - LGBTQ+ friendly environment - Various channels for different interests - Exciting events and game nights - Valuable advice and resources - Fun and useful bots - Safe and inclusive space for everyone - Advertisement opportunities - Art and music sharing platforms - Space and arcade themed server - A wide range of adorable emojis - The chance to make new friends and connect with fellow gamers And much more! Join us at Starlight Arcade and let's embark on this gaming journey together! 🌟🎮🌌

Welcome to unknown tavern! Are you ready to venture into the unknown? Recently released to the public, still a work in progress! Join us for cozy or wretched vibes. We have make friends channel, VCs, special interests channel, positivity channel, counting, one word story, color roles, creativity hub, and more coming soon! We are in need of staff so stay tuned for the application process. Thank you and we hope you enjoy your stay! Please be patient with the application process.

🐾 Welcome to ❄The Furry Weirdos🐾! 🐾 ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ 💫 Calling all furries and furry fandom enthusiasts! We are a vibrant and creative art server dedicated to the furry community. Don't worry if you're not a furry, you're equally welcome! 💎 Originally created as a TikTok server, we have expanded our horizons and offer a safe and inclusive space for all. Our top-notch security ensures a troll-free experience, so you can enjoy your time freely! 🌈 A welcoming environment for ages 13 and above, catering to all age groups. Our friendly and professional staff members are always ready to assist you, with the owner, Nyanna, being an active and approachable part of the community. 🌟 Join our growing and active community today! Each member has a unique personality and artistic flair that contributes to our server's vibrancy. 🏳️‍🌈 Embracing diversity, we provide a safe space for LGBTQ+ individuals. Our owner and many of our staff members are proud members of the community. ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ So come on in

Welcome to "The Resort"! 🌴🌊 Dive into the ultimate virtual getaway where you can chat, connect, and hang out with new friends from around the globe. 🌐 Whether you're seeking lively conversations, gaming companions, or just a chill space to unwind, The Resort is the place to be. 🎉🤝 Join our diverse community and explore different channels tailored to your interests. 🗨️💬 Share your favorite memes, discuss the latest trends, or embark on epic gaming adventures together. 🎮💻 Relax, socialize, and make lasting memories at The Resort—where the virtual sun never sets, and the good times never end! ☀️🏖️

✨𝘾𝙧𝙮𝙥𝙩𝙞𝙙✨ Welcome to 𝓒𝓻𝔂𝓹𝓽𝓲𝓭, a Discord server with a 𝑯𝑶𝑹𝑹𝑶𝑹 𝑻𝑯𝑬𝑴𝑬𝑫 aesthetic! 🔮🕷️👻 If you're tired of dry texting and crave a community that shares a fascination with paranormal, psychology, demons, and spooky stuff, then you've come to the right place! ✨ At 𝓒𝓻𝔂𝓹𝓽𝓲𝓭, we embrace the creepy and unexplained. It's like everyday is Halloween here! 🎃 Plus, we've got an array of 𝒉𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒆𝒏/𝒆𝒅𝒈𝒚/𝒔𝒑𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒚/

🏠 Welcome to the House of International Vegans! 🌱🌈✨ ✨ Looking for a safe and inclusive community? Our Discord server is the perfect space for vegans and LGBTQ+ individuals! 💚🌈 We prioritize equality for all and advocate for peace across the world. 💬 Join us to engage in meaningful conversations and exciting activities related to veganism and beyond! With a wide range of topics to discuss, you'll never run out of things to chat about.🌍 💫 Need spiritual guidance or want to expand your knowledge? Our community offers valuable resources and education to help combat hate and fear that may have corrupted your beliefs. 🙏 🔥 Friendly debates and discussions are highly encouraged, allowing us to gain diverse perspectives and foster growth. 💪✨ ❗️Attention trolls: stay away! We have zero tolerance for negativity. If you attempt to disrupt our harmony, we will kindly show you the door and banish you from our community. 👋🚫 Join the House of International Vegans and let's make a positive impact together! 🌱🌈💚

Welcome to the 🌈BigFriendlyTransPals Discord Server🌈! Discover a supportive and inclusive community, brought to you by the administrators of @bigfriendlytranspals on Instagram. Join us to connect, share experiences, and find friendship with fellow members of the transgender community. 🤗💜💙💖 Boost your well-being and feel empowered in a safe space that celebrates diversity and promotes positivity. From open discussions and helpful resources to exciting events and engaging activities, we've got it all covered! 🎉📚💬🌟 Whether you're seeking advice, looking to make new friends, or simply want to hang out in a welcoming environment, you'll find kindred spirits ready to lend an ear and offer a helping hand. Together, we can uplift, inspire, and navigate our unique journeys as transgender individuals. 🤝🌈✨💪 Join the BigFriendlyTransPals Discord Server now and embark on an unforgettable adventure of self-discovery, growth, and genuine connections. Let's build bridges and forge bonds that last a lifetime! 🔗💞✨

Welcome to The Time Twisters! 🕒✨ We're a multi-purpose Discord server that's open to everyone (as long as you're not toxic 😊). Our server is primarily focused on gacha, but we have something for everyone! Created by the channel owner of TwistedTime, we also have YouTube chats available (although they're not a requirement to join). 🎥📱 Currently, we're actively seeking moderators and general staff, so if you're interested, please let us know! 🛡️👥 Here's what you can expect from our server: ✨ We strive to provide a non-toxic community and always welcome suggestions! 🔞 We maintain a Safe for Work (SFW) environment. ✨ Occasionally, we host small "just for fun" events. 🔒 Some chats (specifically those with attachment permissions) are locked behind level 1 to prevent raiders. Join us and explore our various chats and categories! Here are just a few examples: 🗨️ 3 vent chats for those who need to express their feelings. 🗨️ 2 TW (Trigger Warning) chats for sensitive discussions. 🗨️ A dedicated category

Welcome to Femboyism! 🌸 If you're looking for a friendly safe space where you can express yourself to the fullest then this is the place for you! We've got plenty of channels for you to talk in and meet new people, talk about what's on your mind and much more! We've also got plenty of bots for you to use and mess with if you feel like it along with reaction roles and colors to express yourself in whatever way you'd like. If you want something added or changed then feel free to send it in the server or message one of our friendly staff. If this sounds like a server you want to be in then feel free to stop by, we're looking forwards to seeing you here with us! 🌸

Welcome to Stonewall 🏳️‍🌈 Our server is a community dedicated to creating a comfortable environment for LGBT individuals. 💖 :Stonewall: 💖 ❯ Stonewall is a community that brings together quality people. ❯ Special roles, channels, and activities! ❯ A server that respects what you love and provides a quality time together! ❯ A place where LGBT individuals support each other and spend time together! ❯ Various events, new friendships, workspaces, special roles, server-exclusive channels, and more! ❯ How about spending time with us?

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Welcome to ❤ MineFurs.net ❤ | Furry LGBTQ+ Community! 🌈🐾 Step into a friendly and welcoming Minecraft server that is all about embracing who you are and having a good time with fellow Furry and LGBTQ+ friends. Join us today on MineFurs.net and let's build, explore, and create together on Java Edition. Respect and inclusivity are at the core of our community, so come as you are and let's make some unforgettable memories together! 🏳️‍🌈💖

Welcome to 𝑀𝑖𝑐𝑘𝑟𝑦 𝑀𝑜𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝐶𝑟𝑎𝑐𝑘 𝐻𝑜𝑢𝑠𝑒! 🌟 We may not have a large community yet, but we're hoping to grow with amazing people like you. 🌈 We're open to new staff members with innovative ideas to make our server even better. Join us for a friendly and inclusive atmosphere where we can all improve together. 🎉 Let's make new friends and have a great time! 🌺

➣┊❛ Welcome to MIQ ❜ MIQ (Mentally Ill Queers) is a loving and inclusive space for everyone! We embrace alter humans/non-humans, traumagenic systems, neurodivergent individuals, people with disabilities, POC, furries, and all those who identify as non-exclusive. <3 🌹 ☆ Utilize Pluralkit for systems & Tupperbox for anyone's comfort ✧⭒ 🌸 ♡ Receive wellness reminders every 12hrs [12pm/am CST] ✧⭒ 🌺 ☆ Engage with DM, ping, and tonetag boundary roles ✧⭒ 🌷 ♡ Participate in daily mental health check-ups <3 [8pm CST] ✧⭒ 🌻 ☆ Access roles for venting, triggering content, and blacklisted content ✧⭒ 🌼 ♡ Explore numerous voice channels!! We're also open to partnerships <3 ✧⭒ 🌹 ☆ Benefit from a secure verification system with 2 passwords from the blacklist/trigger list and rules ✧⭒ 🌸 ♡ Engage in discussions within Queer and Disabled categories, providing support and resources ✧⭒ Please maintain a positive atmosphere in the server. ➣┊❛ DNI ❜ Adhere to basic DNI criteria, excluding endogenic "systems," quasihomosexual/yaoisexual, terfs, babs, etc. Additionally, refrain from interacting or joining the server if you are under 16 or over 25; this is to prioritize member comfort, not a personal judgment!