System Dating Discord Servers

Come aboard the 𝐒.𝐒. 𝐂𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐝 𝐍𝐢𝐧𝐞 and join our plural server focused on helping systems find partners/partner systems! We welcome those who are 13 and older and are endo-friendly. Enjoy extra detailed reaction roles, channels for general chatting, support and venting channels, and a super friendly staff team. Whether you're polyamorous, ambiamorous, or monogamous, there's a place for you here. Adults are also welcome to join. Set sail with us today! ⛵️🌌

Welcome to Forest Asylum's ps search! 🌲🏥 Are you a system diagnosed with DID or other related conditions? Are you an adult looking to connect with and potentially date other systems? Then you're in the right place! We are a welcoming community, but we have zero tolerance for minors, hate speech, and any other disrespectful behavior. Let's create a supportive and respectful environment for all members. Join us and let's build connections and friendships within the system community. 🌲🌿

Welcome to Fort PS Search! 🏰🎮 We are Fort Nacht, and we are on the lookout for a partner system or two. We have three PS, one of whom is our spouse. Our interests include all things paranormal, horror, and true crime. This is an 18+ server, and we are all in our late 20s. No syscourse allowed. We have members with BPD, bipolar, and ADHD. We love it when someone likes to talk a lot. If you want to know more, then come and join us! Let's start talking! 👻💬

Welcome to Rain | PS Finder! 🌈 This server is exclusively for individuals 18+ looking for partner systems or friends. Minors are not allowed. If you've been having trouble finding the right partner system or friends, this server is open for searching! We have specialized chats for specific systems, including poc only, t4t only, and an interests dump. Singlets and syscourse are not allowed in this space. Our server is also polyam friendly! Come join us and connect with like-minded individuals. 🌟

Welcome to the 'esdras' psys search 𓎟 Discord server! 🌟 We are a 16yo c-did system on the lookout for a psys! (closed polyam relationships are also welcome) If you're not a psys but want to join, feel free to do so, but if you're interested in becoming a part of our system, please be between the ages of 15-18 (15 is acceptable if you'll be 16 before or in June). Some of our interests include supernatural, Criminal Minds, Doctor Who, Good Omens, and theology! Only traumagenic systems ages 14 and up are allowed to join. We can't wait to connect with you! 🌈✨

🔍 'ps search !' Discord Server 🕵️‍♀️ Welcome to 'ps search !', a Discord community dedicated to helping 18-year-old systems find potential partners! Our community is open to individuals who identify as 18, use she/her pronouns, are polyamorous, and belong to a small system. 🔞 18+ ONLY! 🔞 We welcome existing couples who are looking to add to their relationship 😊 Feel free to join and leave at your own pace, we're here to support and connect with one another ❤️

Welcome to moonsea sys ps search! We are a diverse and welcoming community in search of new friends and connections. Join us and meet all the headmates of our fictive heavy traumagenic osdd-1b system. Good vibes only, and singlets are welcome as long as everyone is respectful. Sorry, no minors allowed as we prefer to connect with adults. Come join us for some fun and meaningful connections! ☾☆☽

Welcome to '☆ ◟space invaders ₊˚⸝⸝' Discord Server! 🚀🌌 ╭── ⋅ ⋅ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ☆ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ⋅ ⋅ ──╮ Greetings and welcome to space invaders! 🌠 We're a traumagenic sys only safe space for ages 15-20! Here's what we have to offer: ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ☆ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── • A safe + accepting space! 🌈 • Nitro giveaways + drops! 🎁 • LEVEL 3 BOOSTED! 🎉 • Searching channels! (psys, srcmate, etc.) 🔍 • Tons of fun bots + emojis! (includes nv) 😄🤖 • Accepts tqs + fictive heavy systems + all alters regardless of source! (even if problematic) 🌌 • And much more! ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ☆ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── Do not join if: • Basic dni! (racist, homophobic, etc.) 🚫 • Pro / comship! ⛔ • Endo sys + supporter + neutral! 🙅‍♂️ • Anti-recovery! (irls / das included) ❌ • Anti-neos + xenos, etc.! 🛑 • Contradictory ids! (ex. mspec les) 🚯 (Just don't be a jerk lol) 😇 ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ☆ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── Perma invite: [https://discord.com/invite/yPnkzdFA2a](https://discord.com/invite/yPnkzdFA2a) ╰── ⋅ ⋅ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ☆ ── ⋅ ⋅ ── ⋅ ⋅ ──╯

Welcome to 'Searching ,', where we help people reconnect with old friends and acquaintances! Whether you're looking for someone from your past or hoping to be found by someone searching for you, this is the place to be. Let's work together to bring people back together! 🕵️‍♂️🔍👥

Welcome to Silly PS Search! We are Freaky System and Rockheart System, both looking for partner systems (together or separately). We are nice and silly and are open to getting to know anyone! ♡ About Freaky System ♡ - We are in our bodily 20s - Our collective labels are transmasc, omni, and quoiromantic - We are a traumagenic complex DID system of 900+ - We have BPD, ASPD, ASD and more - We are physically disabled - Collective interests include Horror, anime, and video games - We are also looking for friends, so feel free to join for that too! ♡ About Rockheart System ♡ - We are also in our bodily 20s - Our collective labels are bigender and pansexual - Traumagenic P-DID System of 70+ - We have BPD, autism, ADHD and more - Collective interests include reading, watching shows, playing video games, drawing, making animations, and listening to music 《 Some general server rules: 》 → +18 people only! → No endos, non-traumagenic systems, or supporters/neutrals → No singlets please! Please read the rules and what we are looking for in the server! Feel free to ask any questions!

Welcome to SkeleTON of FUN! Our skeletons are on the lookout for some bonely romance and they need your help! Meet the Papyruses and Sanses from different universes (UT, UF, US, SF, HT): - UT: Papyrus, Sans - UF: Boss, Red - US: Stretch, Blue - SF: Rus, Nox - HT: Poplar, Ash They may be 18 bodily, but they are ready to mingle and looking for love! Our skeletons identify as males and collectively use He/Him, They/Them pronouns in the EST time zone. If you're interested in getting to know our skeletons better, feel free to ask for their DM status. Don't worry, they may be a bunch of cousins living together in one body, but they won't let that stop them from finding love! Join us and help our skeletons find their match! ♡｡ﾟ.(*♡´‿` 人´‿` ♡*)ﾟ♡ °・

Welcome to Yanderecore Looking 18+! 🖤 This server is for those who are into obslove, cg, and have sys littles and ageshifter alters as primary fronters. We are a community for those who are 18 and older, with ID verification required for access to our NSFW channels. I'm 22 years old, located in the western USA, and I identify as bi, mlm lean, agenderflux fem. I enjoy alternative culture, anime/manga, horror, psychology/philosophy, and I'm also an artist. Come join us and find partners who share your interests and are looking for a connection! 💕

Welcome to 𝘗𝘚 𝘚𝘺𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘮 𝘚𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘤𝘩 ❤₊ ⊹! We are a 20 yr old system searching for other partner systems or system friends! Our server is 18+ and we ask that you read the rules and simply be kind. We have a verification system in place and we're not font friendly. We are T4T, Sys4Sys, and Polyam, so if you have any questions, feel free to ask! Come join us at https://discord.gg/3bumNhM3gh 🌟🌈🌸

🌊 Welcome to "By the Seaside"! A server for MINOR (13-17) bodied systems to hangout, make friends, and be safe! 🔍 Partner system searches! 🔄 Alter partner searches! 🤝 System friend searches! 🔎 Alter friend searches! 👯‍♂️ Sourcemate searches! 🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQ+ help! 🚫 Endo & tulpa free space! 🌈 Queer & trans friendly space! 🛠️ PluralKit, along with PK help & templates! 📱 Tons of different channels to talk! 🤗 A welcoming & friendly owner! If this interests you, join us at "By the Seaside" today!

Welcome to Lovers Hive 🍯 ◜ ◝ 🍯 About us Lovers Hive is a bee hive themed system server dedicated to systems looking for partners, friends or sourcemates ᵎᵎ There are few rules and a strong verification system ᵎᵎ 🌻 We offer General channels ᵎᵎ Venting ᵎᵎ Advice ᵎᵎ Looking channels ᵎᵎ Self assignable roles ᵎᵎ 🍯 Dni Endogenic "systems"/supporters/neutrals ᵎᵎ IRL's/DA's ᵎᵎ Proshippers ᵎᵎ https://discord.gg/xucnjAuMwX ◟ ◞

Welcome to sels silly server! 🎉 We are a fun and ghoulish community, looking for new members to join our polyamorous, plural-positive server. 🌈 Must be 16+ to join, minors please seek permission before joining. Come and hang out with us, and maybe even discover your true self (tmasc). Click the link to join and see for yourself! https://discord.gg/Hs9egQu6 🎮👻

Welcome to aphrotic lovers, also known as aphrotic prayers! We are a traumagenic system with the collective pronouns vae/vym and a body age of 16. We are looking for partners to join our system and become a part of our loving community. We have had success finding friends through our partner system in the past and are hopeful to find a partner this time around. We do want to mention that we have a large headcount, so please keep that in mind as it can be a lot for us to handle. We do sometimes say mean things and use reclaimable slurs, but we are also very lovey dovey and want to create a supportive and caring environment for everyone. Join us and become a part of our loving and understanding community! 💕🌈🌟

Welcome to Partner System Search! 🌟 Partner System Search is a Discord server dedicated to traumagenic systems and those with introjects. We are a diverse and welcoming community, with over 500 alters and around 40 introjects. Our interests range from gaming, art, anime, music, roleplay, and gardening to pottery, reading, writing, baking, origami, sculpting, shows, horror, working out, and sports. Most of our alters are ambiamorous and pan or omni, creating a supportive and inclusive environment for everyone. As we are currently on winter break, we have plenty of free time to connect and engage with our members. Join us and become a part of our wonderful community! 🎮🎨📚🎵

Welcome to GHOST'S PS HUNT! 👻🎮 Are you an adult looking for partners and friends to game with? Look no further! We're a community of 18+ gamers looking to connect with like-minded individuals for anything romantic or queerplatonic. Please make sure to introduce yourself within the first 24 hours of joining the server. More information can be found once you're inside. Let's hunt for PS trophies together! 🏆🎮

Welcome to Sphyrnidae Swarm Partner Search!! 🦈🦑🦕 We are a community of AroAce MLM Polyam individuals, including traumagen and fictive heavy members, who share a love for marine animals, piercings, tattoos, dinosaurs, horror, crime documentaries, Sharks, Obey Me!, Naruto, art, manga, and more! We are an 18+ server only, so no minors allowed. Respectful singlets are okay to join. Come join us for some silly and fun partner searching! 💫

Welcome to Lover’s Paradise! 🌹 Step into our world of surreal experiments and embrace the lain theme. Our server offers a custom aesthetic look and a welcoming community, guided by nice mods. Our matchmaking system helps you find your perfect match within our server. Please introduce yourself and join for a romantic and immersive experience. 🌸 *Note: Endos and individuals in real life may not enter.*

🔥🖤🌹 Welcome to Satanic Panic Dating! 🌹🖤🔥 Are you looking to connect with like-minded individuals in a safe and inclusive environment? Look no further! Whether you're a part of a system or a singlet, identify as LGBTQ+ or not, practice polyamory or monogamy, or adhere to any spiritual belief, you are welcome here. Our community is founded on respect and acceptance, so as long as you're willing to abide by our rules and refrain from spreading hate, we can't wait to have you join us. Let's spread some love and pursue meaningful connections together! ❤️🌈🔮

Welcome to *•.¸♡ 〘 BITESYSTEM Partner System Search 〙 ♡¸.•*! 🌟🌈🔒 Description: Hello, we are the Bitesystem and we are looking for a partner system. We are a fictive heavy OSDD-1b system (bodily 16) with BPD and Mania. This server is a space for us to display our boundaries, needs in a relationship, and more! You can find specific details about us within the server, such as sourcelists, our Simply Plural, sourcecalls, and more. We are excited to meet you! What's not allowed in this server: - Endo systems and/or any other systems coming from origins that are not TRAUMAGENIC. - Anyone who isn't 15-17, unless they recently turned 18 and are comfortable joining. KEEP IN MIND, WE ARE BODILY 16. - Anyone who has a problem with "problematic" sources. - Singlets, please do not join. We are looking for a Partner System in specific. - Those within/searching for a poly relationship beyond our systems. The Server includes: - Verification System - Roles - Personal one on one channels with the Bitesystem (PRIMARY CHANNELS) - Joint channel access to find friends - Sourcecalls with the bitesystem directly - Pretty source aesthetic created by Bum (Bitesystem Alter) - Voice Channels We are excited to meet you! 🔒🌈🌟

Welcome to LOVERS RING ♡, a vibrant and inclusive Discord community inspired by video games. Whether you're a trauma system or a singlet, you'll find a safe and welcoming space here. Our server offers one-shots, events, polyamory education, support and venting channels, interactive pings, and friendly staff always looking to improve the server. Join us for a community that values partnership, friendship, and inclusivity. ︵‿︵‿୨♡୧‿︵‿︵

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Welcome to the Silly Stuff Discord Server! We're a polyfragmented introject-heavy plural system with over 300 headmates. 🌈 We're currently on the lookout for a partner system so come join us! IMPORTANT NOTES: ➤ 🌟 WE'RE PRO-ENDO!!! If you're anti-endo, this might not be the right place for you. Endo-neutral is okay though! ➤ 🌟 Please note that only those ages 14-17 are allowed in this server. We're currently 15, turning 16 in less than 4 days. ➤ 🌟 Our primary interests include animanga, reading & writing psychology (especially personality disorders & plurality), LGBTQ+ research, and alterhumanity research. If it has a pride flag, it's probably an interest of ours! ➤ 🌟 We're polyamorous and cupiorose, mainly looking for a QPR or general non-romantic relationship here. ➤ 🌟 We're a quoigenic (probably traumagenic) system with headmates of assorted origins. 🌌 ➤ 🌟 We have a non-primarily-binary-woman preference, although binary women are fine, just not preferred. ➤ 🌟 We're transandrogynous, identifying as a rosboy and as nonbinary. Come find out more inside and join our wonderful community! 🎉

Welcome to 'The Sxcrifices' server! A safe space for systems and littles, with a separate area for singlets as well. We have health specific support chats, plenty of roles, a decent verification system, venting and ranting channels (with an anon confessions option too), our very own language, matchmaking with separate channels for systems, and fun bots like starboard. We are always open to suggestions and want to make this a safe and fun place for everyone. Ages 13-17 due to matchmaking. DNI criteria: Endo / Tulpa / Demo "systems", IRLs / DA, basic DNI criteria. We want you to feel loved here! Join us and be your true self. 🌈